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What would you most like to see changed in the world?

Posted on Oct 7th, 2009 by tara : samana tara
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for October 07, 2009:







   
   the reluctance to share recourses.

   it saddens me that a child dies of hunger every six seconds &
   one billion people do not have clean water to drink
   in a world wealthy beyond belief.



  photo: water to the world from www.ashesandsnow.org

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Who in your life have you underestimated?

Posted on Oct 13th, 2009 by tara : samana tara
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for October 13, 2009:


Have you ever been pleasantly surprised by actions or words from someone
whom you didn't think had it in them?





I see us humans as bundles of potential & capabilities, equipped with maps made of values & beliefs to guide us through our territories. Sometimes values & beliefs have a restricting effect & causes the misperception that one's territory is much smaller than it actually is. Vast spaces of opportunity to become the best version of ourselves are available, albeit sometimes hidden, it is there, up for grabs. We all have it in us. 

Attempting to estimate another would be a wild guess at best & judging based on limited perception at worst. Which of course hasn't stopped me from doing both. Still, plenty of room left for surprises. As I choose to see the best in others & possibly had a tendency to overestimate on occasion, my surprises have been of the unpleasant kind. Which on the other hand has taught me to not underestimate the predictability of human stupidity. Now, there's a foolproof pattern if there ever was one. The more interesting aspect is the desire to repeat the pattern. Wherein lies the gratification of doing stupid things over & over I wonder?

Back to the bundles of.. & the question at hand, yes an abundance of pleasant actions & words has come my way from kind, caring people, who open their hearts & share their joy effortlessly. I appreciate how we can deepen & grow, uncovering unknown territory within & letting our light shine for each other. I am in awe of our capacity for love.


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What is your favorite role to play?

Posted on Oct 31st, 2009 by tara : samana tara
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for October 31, 2009:


    It's Halloween, which means dressing up for many.
    What persona do you most frequently adopt?
    What's your favorite mask or role?

 


When it comes to dressing up, I have more than a little difficulty picking a favorite role. I love them all, from gorilla to marie antoinette, indiana jones, marilyn, ninja warrior.

I still have my fave mask brought home from Venice that I designed the most amazing costume for and how I loved strutting about like a fine venetian aristocrat, that is until I fell asleep drunk on a table.

The pippi longstockings costume I wore when I was nine, is probably the one I adored the most. I identified so strongly with her chutzpah, independence, playfulness, big teeth and unique dresscode. Oh to be able to lift horses, jump on roofs in a flash and live like a pirate.




According to Jung we have but one persona to adopt, that is if we manage to distinguish ourselves from the ego instead of ending up being adopted by the facade we carry around. There are ofcuz many roles available for the persona to play, chosen consciously or acted out in oblivion. For obvious reasons I can't go into the latter and I'm sure anyone who knows me well could list a few. Of the conscious ones, I like the one wearing the mr fix it cap. Gotta problem? let me solve it for you. You don't even need to ask, I'm perfectly capeable of taking the initiative on that one. What you say? You don't need me to fix your problems? ..too late, I'm in the zone and there's no stopping me.

Blessed be that role, oozing competence, basking about in the glorious illusion of being in control.. of other people's lives. Hiding under the mr fix it cap comes especially handy when my own life is running amok. In addition I get to be the caring  and supporting friend, the one that can be trusted to lean on when the shit hits the fan. And please, do suck every drop of energy out of me, drain me totally and give me the perfect excuse to not deal with my own stuff. The paradox being more often than not, that I play that very role when I feel like a lil scared one who could do with someone to lean on for support. The moments, and sometimes extended moments, where I can't seem to tap into that magical feeling of being courageous and absolutely invinceable behind the freckles, self supporting braids and mismatching socks.. Pippi, can you heeaar me?



    There is nothing that gives more assurance than a mask.
    Collette


Halloween! - Bobby Pickett - Monster Mash - (HD Stereo)



  

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